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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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Should we set Boundaries for our Kids?


 
Dear Chitra,
Great write up!
Raising children is an on-going process of teaching and learning, it is quite a balancing act that is both work and fun!!
I found that like any other aspects of life mixing and matching ingredients according to the need of the hour and the individual (I personally found my own parents to be the best guides, besides other people in my life) works wonders!
Unconditional love is definitely a requirement and when it is combined with some useful directions and guidance it can only bring out the best in both parents and the children!!!
I found that like in any other relationship if love is combined with respect and trust it is cemented further!
I often tell my boys that the onus is on me as the mother to direct them in their lives, for everyone else they will either "a good story"... if they trun out be assets to the society or "a bad story"... if they turn out be a nuisance...
I agree with the great Khalil, but I look at the last two lines
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
So He loves also the bow that is stable.”
The bow that is STABLE.... that to me ios the key. It is an essential quality that as parents one should try and strive for..........STABILITY!!!
regards
dte

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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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MARRIAGE ! THY NAME IS THE CHASING A BLACK CAT IN A BLACK ROOM !!!


Dear Naval,
Funny, hilarious, excellent! Loved the way you have worded some of the phrases!!
"I had imagined a heaven on the earth. I doubt, now, that I might have been mentally unstable in those days."
 "The accident occured : I met a woman. She was so intelligent that during our long love affair, she did not let me know about my unwise illusions, until we signed the marriage bond."
Glad to know despite the accident "the bond is unbroken" to this day, you have to admit that it was a beautiful accident after all!!!
wishing you many more years
rgds
dte

 

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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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ACTUALITY


yash ji namaskar, 
absolutely right! satyameva jayathe!! thanks for your wonderful comments and your presence yash ji! 
pranam
dte

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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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ACTUALITY


dear WL,
thanks a ton for your presence and wonderful comments, i am missing out on a lot (am not able read the write ups) hope to resume soon! see you again!
rgds
dte

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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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ACTUALITY


hi bina,
thanks a lot for your presence and wonderful comments.
i write with the hope that it will reach out to all those who can relate to these feelings and i am encouraged to see friends like you and many more on sulekha working  toward same goals!
cheers
dte

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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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GROWING UP


dear yashasvi,
nice to see u here! thanks for your wonderful feedback!
rgds
dte

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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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GROWING UP


dear yashji,
thanks for your wonderful comments
regards
dte

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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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GROWING UP


thanks dear kala for your wonderful comments,
everchanging, forever evolving and constantly moving... such is life then how can anything be DONE .... living is equivalent to growing up!!!
rgds 
dte

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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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DILEMMA


dear friends(Yash ji, WL, Sue, Bhavna, Bina)
your wonderful comments and your presence on my blog means a lot to me ..... NO DILEMMA there!
rgds
dte

 

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downtoearthdowntoearth  posted 2 mnths ago
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MAKDI KI JAAL


bina dear,
bahut bahut shukriya!
rgds
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